Baby Names: How Do You Find The Perfect One?

Socrates, Einstein, Elvis, even Martha. Oh what’s in a name! While naming your new baby can seem to bring more stress than joy, there are a few tips to keep in mind for this momentous occasion:

• Sound & compatibility – A baby name should foremost sound very pleasing. Initial gut reactions are sometimes the best indicator of suitability. In addition, make sure the baby name is compatible with the last name. Often time, a long first and last name sound very discordant. A first name that ends with a vowel tethered with a last name beginning with a vowel should be avoided.
• Uniqueness – If your baby will already have an unusual last name, don’t exacerbate the problem by naming him “Egbert the III.” However, if he’s destined to be a Smith, a unique name can draw some flattering attention throughout life. So pick a name that’s middle of the road.

Relatives & friends – Honoring your friends and family by naming your baby after one of them will not only bring you goodwill but also serves as a ready-to-go, prescreened name pool. However, don’t get pressured into naming your precious baby after someone you don’t want to like Aunt Gertrude.

• Baggage – Naming your baby after a famous rock star or celebrity can bring unwanted baggage to your child years later. “Cute” names or puns like Holly Wood also wear out quickly.
• Tradition & heritage – Respect the culture identity of your newborn. In addition, following tradition can lead to better family harmony and pleasant memories. Just make sure you’re not falling into a one-sided deal.
• Meaning – Knowing the derivation or origin of your name (i.e. biblical figure) is not only interesting but can also provide sentimental value for your child. Hiroshito, derived from the word hero, just might grow up to be the next 007.
• Nicknames – Playground teasing can be harsh and scarring. Therefore, think of any possible twists and variations on your child’s namesake that might cause trouble in the future. A cute nickname for a formal first name can also be a practical compromise for the elitist in you.